Our Habits Can Make Or Break Us

Let's use as an example the way we learn to rideautomatic pilot, there are other habits that are
a bicycle. You see someone riding a bicycle andholding us back. They are holding us back from
you think you will do the same. You sit on themaking the changes we need to make to
bicycle and you attempt to ride it and you fall off.improve our lives.
You are at the unconscious incompetent stage -Fortunately we can use the power of our minds
where you don't know you can't do it.to break an old habit or to form a new one.
Next you practice and practice until you learn toIf you practice a new habit you will go through
guide, pedal and keep your balance, while this isthe 4 steps of learning and it is said that if you
going on you are at the conscious incompetentpractice the new skills for 21 days you will
stage.become unconsciously competent in the new
With continual practice you move on to the nexthabit.
level where you handling the cycle with confidenceLook for the habits that are limiting your life and
which is the conscious competent stage.change them one at a time for new habits for
Sometime later you are riding the cycle withoutthat will improve your life.
having to remember how to pedal, guide andYou will need habits that will help you achieve
balance and you are wondering what you aremore. These habits are Goal setting, Time
going to have for dinner. You are now at themanagement and improved Sales skills.
unconscious competent stage where ridingEach of the habits will be enlarged upon later and
properly has become a perfected habit.will become the skills that will ensure you future
Whilst most of our habits are get us through oursuccess not only in you career but in all other
daily life more easily on what seems likeareas of your life!