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Article #325: Self-confidence for singles to avoid the partner from Hell

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Singles need to protect and rely on rises, so that we make ourselves
themselves, especially when it comes to understood in the new language or take
avoiding the partner from Hell. the training wheels off the bicycle.
Therefore, psychological safety within Small successes are the stepping stones
yourself, an awareness and good valuable for future successes.
information can achieve quality of life, Still, what would the failure-type do?
happiness and peace of mind. He/she would remember the effects and
Singles have to protect and rely on emotions of failed events, instead of
themselves for happiness, decision-making concentrating on his/her strength and
and particularly, when it comes to sex. bringing his/her past successes to shine.
However, for many singles, sex (or All the good feelings that occurred in
intercourse) becomes a barometer of their the process of achieving success are
self-worth and the amount of love they being eroded. He/she seems unable to be
give to themselves. This can make, in objective and think positively. The
particular, a good hearted, trusting and self-confidence will disappear.
or insecure single very emotionally/ The reader might ponder how one can be
physically vulnerable and thus, an easy confident within a relationship without
target for the partner from Hell. the threat of losing the partner? When we
Therefore, knowledge and awareness become make our partner into an authority figure
very crucial and important methods to of our lives and psychological
protect and avoid disaster, a broken well-being, then it becomes difficult to
heart and other catastrophes. This be confident. The behavior of submission
article is designed to promote awareness or the skill to deflect aggressive
as it's topic is part of the partner(s) is learned during childhood
psychological foundation of a happy, and is called operant conditioning. For
confident individual. instance, we learned to hide from a
Nearly every time we turn on Television violent father or to fear our drunken
we see people bursting with mother. When years later a similar
self-confidence situation occurs during the relationship,
One particular movie comes to my mind as our subconscious mind goes back to the
a passenger has to land a plane, in which childhood experiences that shaped our
the pilots were gunned down by beliefs. Unless we re-learn or repair our
terrorists. This passenger recalled his beliefs it becomes difficult to feel
novice experiences as he trained on a confident and assertive. A lack of
small fixed wing aircraft. confidence therefore makes us vulnerable.
Descending from a high altitude and We lose opportunity and we can become
approaching the landing strip he says to dependent within a relationship.
himself in encouraging manner, "I can do Furthermore, we are not developing our
it. I can do it" and so he landed the full potential. The way to more
plane. self-confidence goes through awareness
Self-confidence is built on a succession and self-improvement. In intimate
of success. relationships it remains the task of each
Success breeds success. Failure breeds partner to become psychologically whole
failure as much as possible (or needed). This is
When we learn a new language or learn to the best way to avoid the partner from
ride a bicycle, our first attempts were Hell, (or to become one) as they will
probably fairly meager in performance, probably look for shy, less confident
but after repetitions our self-confidence targets.






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